What Is a Stay Interview, and How Can It Help My Company?

Two HR professionals sitting at a conference table across from an employee writing notes while conducting a stay interview

Stay interviews can help your company retain its best employees in today’s dog-eat-dog talent acquisition market. 

Unemployment is holding steady at around 4%, with about 6.8 million people looking for a job. At the same time, U.S. employers have around 8.1 million open positions to fill. This means that there aren’t enough available candidates to go around, putting employers in a hiring crunch. 

With competitive companies offering all sorts of lucrative benefits to lure top candidates, employers must do everything in their power to keep their best employees on the payroll. One tactic that’s gaining popularity is the stay interview. 

Learn how stay interviews can help boost your retention rate and how to incorporate them into your talent management strategy. 

What Is a Stay Interview?

You’ve heard of exit interviews, where departing employees are asked to share their thoughts on their experiences and suggest how the company can improve. 

While they share some common goals, a stay interview is the opposite of an exit interview in that it gathers insights from employees who are staying in their jobs rather than leaving them. 

Typically held with high-performing employees, stay interviews are conducted to learn what motivates the individual to come to work each day, what they enjoy about their job, and what they might change to improve the organization. Stay interviews are an opportunity to discover what the company is doing right and where it can make improvements that will help with retention. They’re also a valuable tool in building trust with the company’s most valued workers. 

One important thing to understand about stay interviews is that their primary purpose is not to prevent employees from leaving (although lower turnover can be one of the secondary benefits of implementing them). Rather, stay interviews are an intelligence-gathering mission meant to help you fine-tune your talent retention strategy. 

Related: How to Conduct an Exit Interview

The Importance of Stay Interviews

In addition to finding out why good employees stick around, stay interviews can also help employers:

Stay informed

A strong company culture requires being aware of what’s actually happening within your company. Stay interviews help raise a red flag when problems arise that you might not be able to see from the top so you can prevent them from damaging morale. They also help you stay apprised of your individual workers’ well-being, allowing you to catch and address work-related problems like burnout. 

Stay competitive

Your retention strategy isn’t just about your organization’s actions. You also have to keep an eye on what competitors are doing because you can bet your employees are. If a close market competitor is offering a better work environment, more flexibility, or some other appealing perk, your staff has likely heard about it and may factor it into whether they decide to stay with you. Stay interviews give you an ear to the ground in this important area. 

Stay transparent

The majority of a company’s employees don’t get to see how big decisions are made, let alone learn why. Stay interviews give key employees a sense of what the company is doing to benefit them, which instills transparency–one of the most valued employer characteristics among top talent.

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Benefits of Stay Interviews

Learn what drives top performers to stay 

Stay interviews can help you uncover why your best workers keep returning day after day, year after year. When you know what’s important to them, you can do more of it–or improve upon the areas that are lacking before it drives them to seek opportunities elsewhere. 

Get first-person insights on what needs to change

What matters to an organization’s rank and file often differs from what matters to its leaders. If most of your day is spent in the corner office, it’s easy to lose touch with how workers are feeling on the ground floor. Stay interviews can give you invaluable first-person feedback on what should be done differently to impact employee satisfaction directly. 

Related: Strategies for Culture Change Management that Work

Take a proactive approach to retention

When one of your top performers hands in their resignation letter, it’s standard practice to make them a counteroffer to try and get them to stay. At this point, however, you’re already behind. Stay interviews are a proactive way to hold onto your employees rather than fighting to keep them once they’ve decided to leave. 

Related: Highly Effective Strategies for Employee Retention

Make employees feel heard

From entry-level workers to seasoned veterans, employees want to feel that their voice matters to their company. It’s a major driver of on-the-job engagement. In a Forbes global study of over 4,000 workers, highly engaged employees were over three times more likely to say they felt heard at work than highly disengaged employees. Stay interviews give workers an active channel to exercise their voice. 

Related: How to Measure Employee Satisfaction

Build a culture of trust

Stay interviews establish the ability for employees to speak candidly with their managers–an important component of an organization with a strong culture of trust between leadership and staff. 

Challenges of Stay Interviews

Requires heavy time investment

To facilitate meaningful conversations, stay interviews should last at least 20 to 30 minutes; some may run even longer. The time adds up if you’re conducting a dozen of these interviews. In order for stay interviews to be effective, company leaders must be committed to investing the proper resources, which might mean shifting or pushing back other priorities. 

Necessitates change

Gathering employee feedback means actually doing something with it. If you don’t, it can cause more significant problems, like distrust and disengagement. Conducting stay interviews means you must also have a plan in place for facilitating the changes that are called for. We’ll talk more about this shortly. 

Can lead to unpleasant discoveries

You might not always like what you hear when you conduct stay interviews. It’s uncomfortable to receive negative feedback, especially from people you consider to be top team members. If leaders aren’t ready to listen with an open mind, it could create tension between managers and their reports. Proper preparation and objective analysis are essential to making use of interview responses, however unpleasant they might be. 

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How to Conduct a Stay Interview

Follow these tips for conducting stay interviews that get results. 

Choose the right format

How you conduct your stay interviews will depend upon your organization’s culture. Is it a place where managers and their reports are in close and frequent communication? If so, a face-to-face conversation will work well. However, if your organization has a more hierarchical structure where there’s a perception of distance between managers and employees, an anonymous survey might work better. Remember, you want your interviewees to be able to speak their minds honestly, so choosing the right format is key to making sure that happens. 

Identify good candidates

You should conduct interviews with your highest-performing and longest-tenured employees. These are the ones whose experience you want to replicate since, clearly, there’s something that has kept them engaged and coming back. 

Time it strategically

Build in enough of a buffer between your interviews and any significant company events; the week before performance reviews or year-end bonuses is not a good time to conduct stay interviews, as this may color the answers you receive. Also, it’s a good idea to do them all at the same time; otherwise, you risk giving the impression that certain people are being singled out. 

Make it a conversation

Even though it’s called an interview, it shouldn’t consist of the interviewer firing questions at the subject. Instead, shoot for a more back-and-forth format. Your employees will be more inclined to speak freely if it feels like a natural conversation and not like they’re under a spotlight. 

Put the feedback you get into action

The intel your stay interviews generate is useless if it’s just filed away in a folder somewhere. To reap all the benefits we outlined above, you have to actually do something with what you learn! So, make your efforts worthwhile–and maintain your employees’ confidence–by using their feedback to make organizational changes that will help with acquisition and retention.

13 Stay Interview Questions to Ask

1. What do you like about your job?

This will help identify the top-selling points of working for your company and/or in a particular department. 

2. What motivates you to come to work every day?

Find out what you’re doing right to engage your top performers and what it is about the role that makes it appealing. 

3. Describe what a “perfect day” at work looks like. 

What’s not mentioned may be even more telling than what is. 

4. What do you dislike about your job?

This pointed question will produce some of the most useful insights you can use as the basis for change. 

5. What aspects of your work would be the biggest motivators for you to change jobs?

You want to focus on correcting these as soon as possible, whether it’s low pay, a lack of advancement opportunities, or poor morale. 

6. What do you want to do more/less of at work?

In addition to being useful on an organizational level, these answers can help you offer the right opportunities to your best employees on an individual level. 

7. What do you think of the way our employees are managed?

As we talked about earlier, it’s critical to get perspective from the people with ‘boots on the ground.’

8. How would you describe your work/life balance?

In survey after survey, top candidates cite work/life balance as one of the most important factors when deciding where to work. 

9. What could be done to improve your work/life balance [or any other job aspect that employees value]?

Use this opportunity to gather direct recommendations for improving the factors that matter most for recruiting and retention. 

10. What do you think of the professional development opportunities offered by the company?

Organizations that offer professional development enjoy retention rates that are an average of 34% higher than those that do not offer such programs. 

11. What “work things” do you think about when you’re not at work?

The more you can prevent employees from taking their work home with them, the happier they’ll be. 

12. Do you see a future for yourself at the company? What does it look like?

There’s no better way to gauge whether your top performers plan to stay and how they envision the future unfolding than to ask. 

13. If you were the boss, what would you do differently?

Getting an honest answer to this question depends on a solid level of trust between the interviewer and the subject, but the responses can be eye-opening. 

Tips for Implementing an Action Plan After Stay Interviews

Share the feedback

Provide detailed insights to company leaders and department heads. It’s also a great idea to share your findings–at least the key takeaways–with the company at large. In doing so, communicate what feedback you plan to take action on. If there are elements you’re unable to act on, explain why. 

Start small 

Don’t promise the world; focus on one priority at a time. It’s much better to make one change and do it well than to promise a slew of changes and under-deliver on all of them. 

Set goals and monitor progress

Any changes you intend to make should be undertaken with concrete KPIs in mind. For example, if employees tell you they want more development opportunities, you might set a goal to launch two new development initiatives over the next 12 months. Track your progress during your defined time frame and assess your KPIs regularly. 

Keep employees in the loop

When employees share their input in a stay interview, it’s an act of good faith. Return the favor by keeping them personally informed about your progress on their requests. For example, if a team member says they want more flex time and it’s something you’re onboard with but haven’t yet made headway, you could let them know in their next one-on-one meeting what steps you’ve taken to work on it. 

Repeat the process

Stay interviews aren’t a one-time thing. They should be done at least annually. A good scheduling tip is to conduct them on a schedule opposite your performance reviews. So, if you do performance reviews in Q2 and Q4, you might schedule stay interviews during Q1 and Q3.  

To summarize, boosting retention should be a top objective for companies looking to maintain a strong staff in the face of a persistent talent shortage. Stay interviews can help you collect the data you need to formulate an effective employee retention strategy.

Pete Newsome

About Pete Newsome

Pete Newsome is the President of 4 Corner Resources, the staffing and recruiting firm he founded in 2005. 4 Corner is a member of the American Staffing Association and TechServe Alliance and has been Clearly Rated's top-rated staffing company in Central Florida for the past five years. Recent awards and recognition include being named to Forbes’ Best Recruiting Firms in America, The Seminole 100, and The Golden 100. Pete also founded zengig, to offer comprehensive career advice, tools, and resources for students and professionals. He hosts two podcasts, Hire Calling and Finding Career Zen, and is blazing new trails in recruitment marketing with the latest artificial intelligence (AI) technology. Connect with Pete on LinkedIn